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She may even begin to call other girls these words in retaliation. Instead, boys are rewarded if lots of girls appear to be Why your not getting laid in them, for making sexual choices for themselves, and especially for being sexual.

Teenage boys are encouraged to be sexual by their culture and their peers, if not directly by their families.

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Slut-shaming has been and continues to be an instrument to control women and to rationalize their exclusion or brutalization.

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